Fourth - Fifth Grade

Developmental Characteristics

Physical

  • May be careless about their clothes, room and body cleanliness

  • Girls may have sudden growth spurt and beginning signs of puberty

  • Enjoy physical activities that master specific skills

  • Enjoy competitive games

  • Possess a high activity level

  • Enjoy games that allow for comparison of skills

  • Enjoy games that allow for self-improvement

Social Emotional

  • Enjoy small, peer-dominated group discussions

  • Like to join organized groups

  • Are anxious to grow up

  • Are intensely loyal to their peer group

  • Form a close one-on-one friendship

  • Have a growing desire to assert individuality and independence

  • Can be daring and competitive

  • Can be critical of peers and adults

  • Are self-conscious of their abilities

Cognitive

  • Ask many questions and what thoughtful answers

  • Can often understand other points of view

  • Developing strong interests, hobbies, and collections

  • Enjoy daydreaming

  • Enjoy problem solving games and puzzles, etc.

  • Enjoy rule-based games

  • Are beginning to develop view about social/global issues

  • Beginning to enjoy humor by telling jokes and understanding sarcasm

Lessons

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Situation Reflections

Students physically move to one of four corners of the room labeled A, B, C, or D to show how they would react to real-life conflict scenarios (a friend breaking your sunglasses, someone showing up an hour late, being teased about your appearance), then discuss their choices and what self-control looks like in each situation.

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Week 4: Big vs Small Problems (3-5)

Students play the Big or Small Sorting Game — physically moving to one side of the room labeled "Big Problem" or the other labeled "Small Problem" after each scenario is read — then act out calm reactions to small problems (taking a breath, saying "it's okay," picking things up) reinforcing that a small problem deserves a small reaction.

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Week 3: Breathing Strategies (2-5)

Students practice several breathing techniques together — the crocodile, smell the rose/blow the candle, heart hands, and the Balloon — with volunteers leading the class in their favorite, then cut out and glue 3–5 calm-down strategies onto a personal Calm-Down Toolbox worksheet to decorate and take home.

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Week 2: Freeze Games (3-5)

Students play Freeze Dance — dancing freely to music and freezing their bodies completely still each time the music stops — then play a Movement Game where the teacher calls out a specific movement to do while the music plays, stopping and holding their pose each time the music cuts out.

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Week 1: What is Self-Control? (3-5)

Students play Self-Control Charades — acting out school-based scenarios with their body while classmates identify the emotion, the impulse felt, and the self-control strategy being used — then draw themselves having a calm moment at school on a worksheet, considering their hands, feet, face, and posture.

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Family Fun Map

Students fill out a four-column Family Fun Map listing key family members, activities they already do together, new activities they'd like to try, and how those shared experiences could strengthen their relationship — then share one highlight with the group.

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Anger Choice

Students will reflect on how they personally experience and handle anger, hear how their peers describe theirs, and explore what healthy responses to anger can look like. The lesson uses movement-based choice activities to make anger something we can talk about openly.

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Beanbag Freeze

Students play a movement game where they balance a beanbag on their head while music plays. When the music stops, they freeze. When a beanbag falls, a friend has to help by carefully placing it back—then they move together as partners. The game builds listening, body control, and cooperative care all at once.

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Feelings Check

Participants will determine if engaging in a fitness activity has an effect on how they feel emotionally, and explore how regular exercise can support their mental and physical health as a tool for self-control and emotional regulation.

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What is Motivation

Students will write their own definition of motivation, then collaborate in small groups and a gallery walk to build a shared class vision of what motivated and motivating behavior looks like — which gets posted in the room as an ongoing reference.

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Wear Your Attitude

Students will select a mood card as they enter the room and wear it visibly throughout the session, then observe how their own and others' displayed moods affect interactions — and reflect on whether and how attitudes can be changed.

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The Trees and the Worms

Students will listen to a story while moving through a series of yoga poses, using breath and movement to practice grounding and self-control. A brief debrief follows where students reflect on how focusing on their breath affects their thoughts and feelings.

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Sponge Brigade

Teams race to fill a bucket by passing water-soaked sponges down the line (over heads, under legs) and wringing them out — with dropped sponges eliminated from play — until the water hits an exact tape line, then debrief on teamwork strategies used.

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