Seventh - Eigth Grade

Developmental Characteristics

Physical

  • May appear awkward as result of rapid physical growth

  • Experiencing the beginning of puberty

  • Differ greatly in rate of maturation

  • Need to become familiar with changing body with strong drives

  • Tend to tire easily

  • Have a high activity level and appetite

  • Enjoy cooperative games and competitive sports

Social Emotional

  • Sensitive to their appearance

  • Establishing a personal moral code

  • Unsure of their place in society

  • Depend on their peer group to develop identity

  • Critical of their parents and home

  • May adopt extremes and fads in clothing, speech, handwriting, and mannerisms

  • Form close one-on-one friendships

  • Enjoy small, peer-dominated group discussions

  • Have a strong desire to assert individuality and independence

Cognitive

  • Capable of high level of abstract thought

  • Beginning to think about their future life roles

  • Need time and freedom to engage in self-reflection

  • Are able to postpone gratification

  • Can plan ahead and organize tasks with little or no guidance from adults

  • Beginning to develop views about social issues

Lessons

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Self Confidence Gina Patterson Self Confidence Gina Patterson

I Wanna Thank Me

Students will practice self-gratitude by writing a short thank-you note to themselves that names specific effort, choices and growth, and reflect on why recognizing your own work builds confidence.

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My Identity Is A Superpower

Students will identify personal strengths and parts of their identity (culture, family, interests, talents, values) as sources of confidence rather than obstacles. Students will write and share a "My identity is a superpower because..." statement and recognize how positive self-talk and self-knowledge support confidence.

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Problem solving Gina Patterson Problem solving Gina Patterson

Read the Room

Students vote with their fingers (1, 2, or 3) to label each of five real-life scenarios — a quiet friend, a "ok" text, a hallway bump, being left out of plans, a teacher correction — as an overreaction, underreaction, or just-right response, then discuss what the balanced answers have in common and why it's easy to misread situations.

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Would You Rather: SEL Edition

Students respond to five real-life social scenarios (friend drama, group chat conflict, feeling left out, bad mood day, argument with a friend) by choosing between two reactions and briefly discussing which choice leads to better outcomes, then learn the STOP skill (Stop, Take a Breath, Observe, Pick your response) as a tool to use before reacting in real life.

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Idea Machine

Students sit in a circle and take turns rapidly naming something from a given category (foods, animals, countries, emotions, etc.) with no repeats and a 3–5 second time limit per person, playing multiple rounds with progressively harder categories.

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Self Control Gina Patterson Self Control Gina Patterson

Situation Reflections

Students physically move to one of four corners of the room labeled A, B, C, or D to show how they would react to real-life conflict scenarios (a friend breaking your sunglasses, someone showing up an hour late, being teased about your appearance), then discuss their choices and what self-control looks like in each situation.

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Empathy Walk

Students move to one of three designated spots in the room (Agree, Disagree, Not Sure) in response to empathy statements read aloud, then discuss why they chose their spot and what empathy could look like in each scenario.

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Someone Else’s Shoes

Students complete the "Are You Empathetic?" self-assessment worksheet and discuss empathetic listening behaviors as a class, then receive a character card from "Someone Else's Shoes" and practice empathy in pairs by taking turns sharing their character's situation while the partner listens and responds with genuine empathy.

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Self Confidence Gina Patterson Self Confidence Gina Patterson

Letter to Myself

Students write a letter to themselves listing things they like about themselves — brainstormed together as a class first — which is then sealed and saved to be delivered back to them at a later date.

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Confidence Card

Students write a list of personal strengths, improvements, or a thank-you note to themselves on an index card, then decorate it with colors and doodles — the cards are collected and saved to be given back to students on hard days.

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Strengths Circle

Students sit in a circle and take turns sharing a personal strength, with each person first repeating all the strengths named before them and then adding their own — building a growing chain of affirmations around the room.

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