Second - Third Grade
Developmental Characteristics
Physical
Enthusiastic about games
Experiencing improvement in both gross and fine motor skills
Possess a high activity level
Practice to master variations of movement for physical activities
Enjoy games that allow for comparison of skills
Enjoy games that allow for self-f-improvement
Social Emotional
Have a strong drive toward independence
Develop a strong sense of loyalty to friends
Need to belong to a group
Play with and are friends with same-sex peers
Like to take on responsibility
Live in a world of games, rituals and humor inhabited only by children
Like to have a best friend
Have a rigid sense of right and wrong
Need help accepting peers who are different or left out of a group
Cognitive
Like to talk; use language to express feelings/tell stories
Developing a sense of time
Enjoy collecting things
Enjoy problem-solving games like treasure hunts
Can plan and carry out projects with adult support
Becoming more self-directed in activities
Better able to understand and appreciate differences of opinion
Friendship Repair
Students will recognize how their actions affect a friend's feelings, and practice a four-part repair (notice, own it, apologize, make it right).
Empathy Ball
Students will finish empathy sentence starters ("When someone is sad, I can...") and explain how noticing a feeling leads to a kind act.
Secret Kindness Mission
Students will plan a kind act tailored to a specific classmate's feelings or needs, carry it out during the day, and reflect on how the act affected both people.
Was Empathy Shown?
Students will analyze short scenarios to decide whether empathy was shown, highlight the evidence, and rewrite non-empathetic responses.
Ask, Listen, Learn
Students will generate open questions to understand another person's perspective and practice listening without interrupting or fixing.
Empathy Thermometer
Students will rate how strongly a person might feel in different situations, explain their reasoning, and match the level of support to the level of feeling.
My Kind of Kindness
Students will recognize that people prefer to receive kindness in different ways, identify their own preferences, and ask a classmate about theirs.
Empathy in our Community
Students will identify a problem in the school or neighborhood, name who is affected and how they might feel, and propose one empathy-based action.
Five Steps To Empathy
Students will learn a step-by-step routine for showing empathy (notice, imagine, remember, ask, act) and apply it to a scenario card.
The Listening Challenge
Students will practice focused listening (eyes, body, no interrupting), reflect back what they heard, and describe how being truly listened to feels.
Empathy Maps
Students will complete an empathy map (feeling, thinking, saying, doing) for a character in a scenario and use it to choose a helpful response.
My Comfort Kit
Students will identify what helps them feel better when they are upset, learn that friends may need different things, and practice asking a friend what they need.
SMART Goal Sort and Set
Students will distinguish specific, reachable goals from vague ones, write one SMART goal, and identify the first action step.
Mirror Mirror: I Am Statements
Students will create and say aloud two positive "I am" statements about themselves and practice using them when they feel unsure.
Thinking Caps: Helpful Thoughts
Students will tell the difference between helpful and unhelpful thoughts and practice replacing an unhelpful thought with a helpful one.
The Success Iceberg
Students will explain that visible success is built on unseen effort, mistakes and practice, and identify the "below the surface" work behind one of their own accomplishments.
My Elastic Brain
Students will explain in simple words that practice makes the brain stronger, and identify one thing they got better at through practice.
Bucket Fillers: Strength Notes
Students will recognize and name specific strengths in classmates, give and receive strength notes, and reflect on how recognition affects confidence.
Flip the Script: Thought Comics
Students will sort helpful and unhelpful thoughts, then create a three-panel comic that shows a challenge, a flipped thought, and a confident action.
Try, Try, Try Again: 3-Try Drawing
Students will experience that trying again leads to improvement, notice their own progress, and describe how it feels to keep trying.