Fourth - Fifth Grade
Developmental Characteristics
Physical
May be careless about their clothes, room and body cleanliness
Girls may have sudden growth spurt and beginning signs of puberty
Enjoy physical activities that master specific skills
Enjoy competitive games
Possess a high activity level
Enjoy games that allow for comparison of skills
Enjoy games that allow for self-improvement
Social Emotional
Enjoy small, peer-dominated group discussions
Like to join organized groups
Are anxious to grow up
Are intensely loyal to their peer group
Form a close one-on-one friendship
Have a growing desire to assert individuality and independence
Can be daring and competitive
Can be critical of peers and adults
Are self-conscious of their abilities
Cognitive
Ask many questions and what thoughtful answers
Can often understand other points of view
Developing strong interests, hobbies, and collections
Enjoy daydreaming
Enjoy problem solving games and puzzles, etc.
Enjoy rule-based games
Are beginning to develop view about social/global issues
Beginning to enjoy humor by telling jokes and understanding sarcasm
Window or Mirror: Empathy Through Story
Students will read a short text featuring a character in an emotionally complex situation, identify the character's feelings and motivations, and connect the character's experience to their own.
Powerful Questions
Students will distinguish shallow from deep curiosity, craft open questions that invite someone to share their experience, and practice asking and listening.
Friendship Repair
Students will recognize how their actions affect a friend's feelings, and practice a four-part repair (notice, own it, apologize, make it right).
Secret Kindness Mission
Students will plan a kind act tailored to a specific classmate's feelings or needs, carry it out during the day, and reflect on how the act affected both people.
From Awareness to Allyship
Students will identify everyday relationship behaviors that help classmates feel safe and supported, and commit to one ally action for the week.
Was Empathy Shown?
Students will analyze short scenarios to decide whether empathy was shown, highlight the evidence, and rewrite non-empathetic responses.
Ask, Listen, Learn
Students will generate open questions to understand another person's perspective and practice listening without interrupting or fixing.
Empathy Thermometer
Students will rate how strongly a person might feel in different situations, explain their reasoning, and match the level of support to the level of feeling.
Empathy Interviews
Students will interview a classmate about what makes them feel nervous, appreciated or misunderstood, listen without judgment, and introduce their partner's perspective to the group.
My Kind of Kindness
Students will recognize that people prefer to receive kindness in different ways, identify their own preferences, and ask a classmate about theirs.
Empathy in our Community
Students will identify a problem in the school or neighborhood, name who is affected and how they might feel, and propose one empathy-based action.
Five Steps To Empathy
Students will learn a step-by-step routine for showing empathy (notice, imagine, remember, ask, act) and apply it to a scenario card.
Checking Your Perspective
Students will predict a partner's reaction to a scenario, check the prediction against the partner's actual response, and conclude that asking beats assuming.
The Listening Challenge
Students will practice focused listening (eyes, body, no interrupting), reflect back what they heard, and describe how being truly listened to feels.
Empathy Maps
Students will complete an empathy map (feeling, thinking, saying, doing) for a character in a scenario and use it to choose a helpful response.
Safe Spaces and Belonging Agreements
Students will define what makes a space feel safe from different classmates' perspectives, and contribute to shared agreements about how the class will care for one another.
The Empathy Circle
Students will discuss one scenario in a round-robin circle, build on each other's interpretations, and reach a shared understanding of what the person feels, thinks and needs.
Listening to Understand, Not to Fix
Students will distinguish listening to understand from listening to fix or judge, and practice an empathetic check-in with active-listening responses.
SMART Goal Sort and Set
Students will distinguish specific, reachable goals from vague ones, write one SMART goal, and identify the first action step.
The Success Iceberg
Students will explain that visible success is built on unseen effort, mistakes and practice, and identify the "below the surface" work behind one of their own accomplishments.