Fourth - Fifth Grade

Developmental Characteristics

Physical

  • May be careless about their clothes, room and body cleanliness

  • Girls may have sudden growth spurt and beginning signs of puberty

  • Enjoy physical activities that master specific skills

  • Enjoy competitive games

  • Possess a high activity level

  • Enjoy games that allow for comparison of skills

  • Enjoy games that allow for self-improvement

Social Emotional

  • Enjoy small, peer-dominated group discussions

  • Like to join organized groups

  • Are anxious to grow up

  • Are intensely loyal to their peer group

  • Form a close one-on-one friendship

  • Have a growing desire to assert individuality and independence

  • Can be daring and competitive

  • Can be critical of peers and adults

  • Are self-conscious of their abilities

Cognitive

  • Ask many questions and what thoughtful answers

  • Can often understand other points of view

  • Developing strong interests, hobbies, and collections

  • Enjoy daydreaming

  • Enjoy problem solving games and puzzles, etc.

  • Enjoy rule-based games

  • Are beginning to develop view about social/global issues

  • Beginning to enjoy humor by telling jokes and understanding sarcasm

Lessons

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Powerful Questions

Students will distinguish shallow from deep curiosity, craft open questions that invite someone to share their experience, and practice asking and listening.

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Friendship Repair

Students will recognize how their actions affect a friend's feelings, and practice a four-part repair (notice, own it, apologize, make it right).

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Secret Kindness Mission

Students will plan a kind act tailored to a specific classmate's feelings or needs, carry it out during the day, and reflect on how the act affected both people.

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Was Empathy Shown?

Students will analyze short scenarios to decide whether empathy was shown, highlight the evidence, and rewrite non-empathetic responses.

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Ask, Listen, Learn

Students will generate open questions to understand another person's perspective and practice listening without interrupting or fixing.

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Empathy Thermometer

Students will rate how strongly a person might feel in different situations, explain their reasoning, and match the level of support to the level of feeling.

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Empathy Interviews

Students will interview a classmate about what makes them feel nervous, appreciated or misunderstood, listen without judgment, and introduce their partner's perspective to the group.

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My Kind of Kindness

Students will recognize that people prefer to receive kindness in different ways, identify their own preferences, and ask a classmate about theirs.

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Checking Your Perspective

Students will predict a partner's reaction to a scenario, check the prediction against the partner's actual response, and conclude that asking beats assuming.

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The Listening Challenge

Students will practice focused listening (eyes, body, no interrupting), reflect back what they heard, and describe how being truly listened to feels.

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Empathy Maps

Students will complete an empathy map (feeling, thinking, saying, doing) for a character in a scenario and use it to choose a helpful response.

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The Empathy Circle

Students will discuss one scenario in a round-robin circle, build on each other's interpretations, and reach a shared understanding of what the person feels, thinks and needs.

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