Fourth - Fifth Grade

Developmental Characteristics

Physical

  • May be careless about their clothes, room and body cleanliness

  • Girls may have sudden growth spurt and beginning signs of puberty

  • Enjoy physical activities that master specific skills

  • Enjoy competitive games

  • Possess a high activity level

  • Enjoy games that allow for comparison of skills

  • Enjoy games that allow for self-improvement

Social Emotional

  • Enjoy small, peer-dominated group discussions

  • Like to join organized groups

  • Are anxious to grow up

  • Are intensely loyal to their peer group

  • Form a close one-on-one friendship

  • Have a growing desire to assert individuality and independence

  • Can be daring and competitive

  • Can be critical of peers and adults

  • Are self-conscious of their abilities

Cognitive

  • Ask many questions and what thoughtful answers

  • Can often understand other points of view

  • Developing strong interests, hobbies, and collections

  • Enjoy daydreaming

  • Enjoy problem solving games and puzzles, etc.

  • Enjoy rule-based games

  • Are beginning to develop view about social/global issues

  • Beginning to enjoy humor by telling jokes and understanding sarcasm

Lessons

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Turning Red: Accountability and Family Empathy

Students practice reading emotions in "Emotions Charades," then watch the final Turning Red clips on family support and mutual accountability. They complete an "Accountability Rewind" worksheet, reflecting on a moment they wish they'd handled better.

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Turning Red: Empathy for the Ones We Love Most

Students build trust in "Sleeping Dragons," a blindfolded partner-guiding game, then watch Turning Red clips on Mei Mei's self-acceptance and unintentional harm to loved ones, sketching or making comics as they reflect on intent vs. impact.

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Week 1: The Lorax: Speaking up for others and the world

Students discuss the kind of world they want to live in, then build a collaborative pipe-cleaner class garden. They watch clips from Dr. Seuss' The Lorax and create a comic strip reflecting on selfishness, empathy, and caring for others and the environment, closing with a group discussion on why that care matters.

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Empathy Walk

Students move to one of three designated spots in the room (Agree, Disagree, Not Sure) in response to empathy statements read aloud, then discuss why they chose their spot and what empathy could look like in each scenario.

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Someone Else’s Shoes

Students complete the "Are You Empathetic?" self-assessment worksheet and discuss empathetic listening behaviors as a class, then receive a character card from "Someone Else's Shoes" and practice empathy in pairs by taking turns sharing their character's situation while the partner listens and responds with genuine empathy.

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Week 7: Community Empathy (3-5)

Students play Kindness Freeze Dance — dancing freely until the music stops, finding a partner, and performing a called-out kindness action (high five, handshake, smile, or compliment) before the music restarts — then design and decorate a Kindness Coupon promising one specific kind act they'll do for a friend or family member.

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Week 6: Recognizing Empathy (3-5)

Students play Step Forward If — standing in two lines facing each other and stepping forward to high-five when a statement applies to them — then practice the Feelings Signal Game, listening to short scenarios and identifying the emotions involved through class discussion, group talk, acting out, or feelings cards.

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Week 4: Caring Actions (3-5)

In small groups, students discuss and act out solutions to scenarios where someone needs help (a forgotten backpack, a sad friend at lunch, a struggling classmate), then complete a Helping Hands worksheet writing or drawing one way they can help a friend and one way they'd like help at school.

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Week 5: Kind Words (3-5)

Students play Kind Words Echo — repeating compliments back in calm, loud, and silly voices — then write or draw a compliment for a classmate or family member on a Compliment Card to give away.

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Week 3: Walking in Someone’s Shoes (2nd-5th)

Students play Shoe Shuffle — removing one shoe, mixing them in the center, then guessing whose shoe they picked up and discussing similarities and differences with that person — then decorate a shoe outline with personal clues (favorite color, something they like, and what makes them feel happy or calm).

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Week 2: Feelings Charades (2nd-5th)

Students play Emotion Freeze Dance — dancing freely until the music stops, then freezing in a full-body pose matching the feeling called out — then color a Feelings Wheel, choosing their own color for each emotion section (happy, sad, mad, scared, tired, silly).

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Week 1: What is Empathy? (2nd-5th)

Students play Feelings Face Shuffle — making the facial expression that matches each emotion called out (happy, sad, surprised, scared, etc.) — then look at 4–6 pictures of children and discuss what feeling each child is showing and what might help them.

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Examining Identity and Assimilation

Students read Mitali Perkins's essay "Magic Carpet" about cultural assimilation, then discuss questions about hiding parts of one's identity before writing privately about a time they (or someone they observed) concealed a cultural trait — or composing a story, song, or poem saying goodbye to a part of themselves they sometimes disown.

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