Fourth - Fifth Grade
Developmental Characteristics
Physical
May be careless about their clothes, room and body cleanliness
Girls may have sudden growth spurt and beginning signs of puberty
Enjoy physical activities that master specific skills
Enjoy competitive games
Possess a high activity level
Enjoy games that allow for comparison of skills
Enjoy games that allow for self-improvement
Social Emotional
Enjoy small, peer-dominated group discussions
Like to join organized groups
Are anxious to grow up
Are intensely loyal to their peer group
Form a close one-on-one friendship
Have a growing desire to assert individuality and independence
Can be daring and competitive
Can be critical of peers and adults
Are self-conscious of their abilities
Cognitive
Ask many questions and what thoughtful answers
Can often understand other points of view
Developing strong interests, hobbies, and collections
Enjoy daydreaming
Enjoy problem solving games and puzzles, etc.
Enjoy rule-based games
Are beginning to develop view about social/global issues
Beginning to enjoy humor by telling jokes and understanding sarcasm
Mistake Of The Week
Students will share a mistake and what it taught them, reframe mistakes as evidence of courage and learning, and contribute to a class Mistake Celebration board.
If-Then Plans: Confidence Through Preparation
Students will set a goal, identify internal and external obstacles, and write an If-Then plan so that confidence comes from being prepared rather than hoping nothing goes wrong.
Seeing The Good In Others
Students will recognize specific strengths in peers, give and receive written recognition, and reflect on how noticing strengths in others and in ourselves builds confidence.
Discover Your Strengths
Students will identify their top character strengths from a strengths word cloud, provide evidence, and design a quick poster showing how they use those strengths.
Rewrite Your Story
Students will retell a personal setback as a story of learning and growth, identifying the strengths they used and how the experience changed them.
Motivation Map
Students will analyze what drives their motivation for a personal goal (expecting success, valuing it, and the cost) and choose one strategy to raise their confidence and motivation.
Famous Failures, Future Wins
Students will learn about people who failed before succeeding, connect setbacks to persistence, and write their own "I haven't ___ yet" story with a next step.
My Most Confident Self
Students will distinguish confidence from self-worth, reflect on their favorite qualities and achievements, and set one action their most confident self would take this week.
My Name, My Story
Students will explore the story and meaning of their name as part of their identity, and share one thing about their name with pride.
Who Am I? Identity Charts
Students will define identity, build a personal identity chart showing the factors that shape who they are, and identify which parts of their identity are sources of strength.
Not Yet! Flipping Thoughts and Growing Confidence
Students will identify unhelpful self-talk ("I can't," "I'm bad at this") and flip it into helpful, growth-minded self-talk. Students will connect confidence to practice and effort by making a short, specific practice plan for one skill they want to improve.
My Identity Is A Superpower
Students will identify personal strengths and parts of their identity (culture, family, interests, talents, values) as sources of confidence rather than obstacles. Students will write and share a "My identity is a superpower because..." statement and recognize how positive self-talk and self-knowledge support confidence.
Lego Master Builder Battle
Students build a Lego creation using only ~15 pieces (trading with tablemates to communicate and collaborate), share their build with the class, then watch a series of Lego Movie clips paused for discussion — finishing by devising their own plan in groups of 3 to defeat President Business using their personal strengths.
Mirror Partners & KPOP Demon Hunters
Students pair up and silently mirror each other's movements, then watch a Mean Girls clip to unpack the reasons behind negative self-talk before completing a reflection worksheet and mindful breathing. They finish by watching a Kpop Demon Hunters clip and drawing their own "demon" that represents a personal insecurity they can turn into a strength.
Week 2: Believing in ourselves & others!
Students build and share a Lego creation using only ~15 pieces (trading with tablemates), then watch a series of Lego Movie clips paused for discussion, and in groups of 3 devise a plan using their own strengths to defeat President Business before watching how Emmet's plan plays out.
Week 1: I Love Myself
Students mirror each other's movements silently in pairs, then watch a Mean Girls clip and a Kpop Demon Hunters clip to discuss negative self-talk and self-acceptance before writing a reflection worksheet and drawing their own "demon" representing a personal insecurity they can turn into a strength.
My Strength Spotlight
Students write down one personal strength individually, then pair up to share it with a partner who responds by naming a strength they see in them in return.
Letter to Myself
Students write a letter to themselves listing things they like about themselves — brainstormed together as a class first — which is then sealed and saved to be delivered back to them at a later date.
Confidence Card
Students write a list of personal strengths, improvements, or a thank-you note to themselves on an index card, then decorate it with colors and doodles — the cards are collected and saved to be given back to students on hard days.
Week 7: Confidence Through Kindness (1st-5th)
Students pass a ball around the circle, each sharing one kind action they can do that day while classmates cheer, then decorate a paper crown with drawings and words representing their own kind actions before wearing their finished Kindness Crown.