Fourth - Fifth Grade

Developmental Characteristics

Physical

  • May be careless about their clothes, room and body cleanliness

  • Girls may have sudden growth spurt and beginning signs of puberty

  • Enjoy physical activities that master specific skills

  • Enjoy competitive games

  • Possess a high activity level

  • Enjoy games that allow for comparison of skills

  • Enjoy games that allow for self-improvement

Social Emotional

  • Enjoy small, peer-dominated group discussions

  • Like to join organized groups

  • Are anxious to grow up

  • Are intensely loyal to their peer group

  • Form a close one-on-one friendship

  • Have a growing desire to assert individuality and independence

  • Can be daring and competitive

  • Can be critical of peers and adults

  • Are self-conscious of their abilities

Cognitive

  • Ask many questions and what thoughtful answers

  • Can often understand other points of view

  • Developing strong interests, hobbies, and collections

  • Enjoy daydreaming

  • Enjoy problem solving games and puzzles, etc.

  • Enjoy rule-based games

  • Are beginning to develop view about social/global issues

  • Beginning to enjoy humor by telling jokes and understanding sarcasm

Lessons

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Moment of Memory

The facilitator reads six words from a TABOO card aloud, then signals "Go!" and students race to write down as many words as they can remember — playing multiple rounds with new cards and discussing strategies for improving focus and listening.

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Measuring Self Esteem

Students privately rate their own self-esteem on a 1–10 scale and reflect on what shapes it, then choose a role model with high self-esteem and create a collage or drawing of that person's qualities — sharing connections between their role model and themselves.

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Mad Lib

Create a Mad Lib story in which other students can fill in either “happy” or “excited” to complete the story, and apply their understanding of the difference between happy and excited to their own Mad Lib as well as to those of their classmates.

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Lucky Number

Students will move to one of four numbered corners based on personal preference questions (e.g., "Are you most like summer, winter, spring, or fall?"), discuss their choices with classmates in the same corner, and earn points when the die lands on their number. The game creates a low-pressure way for students to learn about each other and build relationships through conversation.

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Lucky Letters

Teams draw a random letter tile, then race to come up with a positive word starting with that letter to describe every person in the class — sharing their lists aloud and then discussing how it felt to hear the words others chose for them.

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Emotion Ambassadors

Students watch Sir Ken Robinson’s TED Talk “Do Schools Kill Creativity?” and step into the role of Emotion Ambassadors — brainstorming, prioritizing, and electing peers to lead initiatives that bring creativity and emotional intelligence to the wider school community.

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Life Just Got Real

In small groups, students choose a real-life challenging scenario (e.g., a friend using drugs, a parent's divorce) and create a five-section poster mapping out the fears, opportunities, possible actions, and consequences — then do a gallery walk to add to each other's posters before presenting to the class.

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Letters Home

Over several sessions, each student secretly observes an assigned classmate and tracks their positive qualities, then writes a formal letter to that classmate's family describing the strengths they witnessed — which is mailed home after a draft-and-revise process.

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Letter to Myself

Students will identify their positive qualities and write a letter to themselves — building self-confidence by giving themselves the kind of encouragement they often save for others.

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Let the Hot Air Out of Bullies

Students will write a bullying problem on an inflated balloon, brainstorm solutions, and release the balloon when the class agrees on a good solution — symbolically "deflating the bully." Through this activity, students practice empathy and critical thinking to develop strategies for standing up for themselves and others.

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Keep ‘Em Afloat

To introduce the concept of doing a good job by yourself and in a team, and to have participants explore ways they can be helpful to each other and their communities.

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Intentional Family Tree

Students journal about what family means to them, discuss the concept of "intentional family" (chosen relationships beyond biology), then create an illustrated family tree featuring the people they consider family — noting why each person belongs — and write a reflection on how they show those people they're valued.

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Inspiration Road Map

Students rotate through gallery-walk brainstorm posters about what inspiration means to them, then use those ideas to create a personal visual "Inspiration Roadmap" — a collage or drawing of the specific people, places, and things they can turn to when they feel uninspired.

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I Wonder Ball

Students toss a numbered ball around the circle, and wherever their right thumb lands determines which reflection question they answer — progressing through three increasingly personal levels (from "What's your happy place?" to "What would you do if you weren't afraid?") with the option to pass at any time.

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Honey, I Love

Students will be able to identify the people, places, and things they love — building self-confidence by recognizing the joy and goodness already present in their own lives.

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