Seventh - Eigth Grade

Developmental Characteristics

Physical

  • May appear awkward as result of rapid physical growth

  • Experiencing the beginning of puberty

  • Differ greatly in rate of maturation

  • Need to become familiar with changing body with strong drives

  • Tend to tire easily

  • Have a high activity level and appetite

  • Enjoy cooperative games and competitive sports

Social Emotional

  • Sensitive to their appearance

  • Establishing a personal moral code

  • Unsure of their place in society

  • Depend on their peer group to develop identity

  • Critical of their parents and home

  • May adopt extremes and fads in clothing, speech, handwriting, and mannerisms

  • Form close one-on-one friendships

  • Enjoy small, peer-dominated group discussions

  • Have a strong desire to assert individuality and independence

Cognitive

  • Capable of high level of abstract thought

  • Beginning to think about their future life roles

  • Need time and freedom to engage in self-reflection

  • Are able to postpone gratification

  • Can plan ahead and organize tasks with little or no guidance from adults

  • Beginning to develop views about social issues

Lessons

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Situation Reflections

Students physically move to one of four corners of the room labeled A, B, C, or D to show how they would react to real-life conflict scenarios (a friend breaking your sunglasses, someone showing up an hour late, being teased about your appearance), then discuss their choices and what self-control looks like in each situation.

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Cross the Line

Students silently step across a line on the floor for each statement that rings true for them (e.g., "I feel safe at school," "my opinion matters"), observing who else crosses, then choose one statement that impacted them to write about privately before sharing with a partner.

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Here Fishy, Fishy

Students will simulate a fishing village economy by using straws to "catch" goldfish crackers, experiencing the consequences of taking more than they need as resources deplete and villagers get eliminated. A debrief connects the game to real-world thinking about wants vs. needs and practicing self-control.

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Chalk Circles

Students physically move to large pre-drawn chalk circles representing broad interest areas, discuss their specific goals within their group, then use chalk to draw branching smaller circles capturing increasingly specific personal goals — culminating in an individual circle for their most personal goal, which they share aloud before writing a concrete action plan for how to achieve it.

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Inspiration Road Map

Students rotate through gallery-walk brainstorm posters about what inspiration means to them, then use those ideas to create a personal visual "Inspiration Roadmap" — a collage or drawing of the specific people, places, and things they can turn to when they feel uninspired.

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Physical Puzzle

Students will work together as a group to complete a jigsaw puzzle by drawing puzzle pieces one at a time and performing the corresponding exercise to earn each piece. Afterward, they'll reflect on how physical activity affects them emotionally and physically.

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Roll and Move

Teams take turns rolling dice and completing the corresponding physical exercise (push-ups, jumping jacks, frog hops, etc.), racing to complete the most activities before time runs out, then reflect on how they practiced self-control during the competition.

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SMART Goals/Passion Collage

Students create a passion collage using magazine images and words across three categories (academics, career, relationships), then use the SMART goal framework to turn those visual passions into concrete, written goals they share with the class.

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Sponge Brigade

Teams race to fill a bucket by passing water-soaked sponges down the line (over heads, under legs) and wringing them out — with dropped sponges eliminated from play — until the water hits an exact tape line, then debrief on teamwork strategies used.

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Wear Your Attitude

Students will select a mood card as they enter the room and wear it visibly throughout the session, then observe how their own and others' displayed moods affect interactions — and reflect on whether and how attitudes can be changed.

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What is Motivation

Students will write their own definition of motivation, then collaborate in small groups and a gallery walk to build a shared class vision of what motivated and motivating behavior looks like — which gets posted in the room as an ongoing reference.

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Feelings Check

Participants will determine if engaging in a fitness activity has an effect on how they feel emotionally, and explore how regular exercise can support their mental and physical health as a tool for self-control and emotional regulation.

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Family Fun Map

Students fill out a four-column Family Fun Map listing key family members, activities they already do together, new activities they'd like to try, and how those shared experiences could strengthen their relationship — then share one highlight with the group.

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Anger Choice

Students will reflect on how they personally experience and handle anger, hear how their peers describe theirs, and explore what healthy responses to anger can look like. The lesson uses movement-based choice activities to make anger something we can talk about openly.

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