Seventh - Eigth Grade

Developmental Characteristics

Physical

  • May appear awkward as result of rapid physical growth

  • Experiencing the beginning of puberty

  • Differ greatly in rate of maturation

  • Need to become familiar with changing body with strong drives

  • Tend to tire easily

  • Have a high activity level and appetite

  • Enjoy cooperative games and competitive sports

Social Emotional

  • Sensitive to their appearance

  • Establishing a personal moral code

  • Unsure of their place in society

  • Depend on their peer group to develop identity

  • Critical of their parents and home

  • May adopt extremes and fads in clothing, speech, handwriting, and mannerisms

  • Form close one-on-one friendships

  • Enjoy small, peer-dominated group discussions

  • Have a strong desire to assert individuality and independence

Cognitive

  • Capable of high level of abstract thought

  • Beginning to think about their future life roles

  • Need time and freedom to engage in self-reflection

  • Are able to postpone gratification

  • Can plan ahead and organize tasks with little or no guidance from adults

  • Beginning to develop views about social issues

Lessons

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Letter to Myself

Students write a letter to themselves listing things they like about themselves — brainstormed together as a class first — which is then sealed and saved to be delivered back to them at a later date.

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Confidence Card

Students write a list of personal strengths, improvements, or a thank-you note to themselves on an index card, then decorate it with colors and doodles — the cards are collected and saved to be given back to students on hard days.

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Body Language Power

Students do a body self-audit, watch Amy Cuddy's TED Talk on body language, then role-play everyday scenarios in trios — acting out the same scene twice (once with disempowering posture, once with empowering posture) while a third student observes and gives feedback, rotating until each person has played every role.

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CD Awards

Students draw a classmate's name, then decorate a microwaved CD medal with that person's name and a specific written acknowledgment of what they appreciate about them, before presenting their award aloud in a closing ceremony where each recipient takes a moment to receive the recognition.

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By Myself Poem

Students will read Eloise Greenfield's poem "By Myself" and then create their own "I am" poems, building a list of words and phrases that describe who they are. Younger students can draw a picture instead of writing.

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Honey, I Love

Students will be able to identify the people, places, and things they love — building self-confidence by recognizing the joy and goodness already present in their own lives.

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Letter to Myself

Students will identify their positive qualities and write a letter to themselves — building self-confidence by giving themselves the kind of encouragement they often save for others.

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Letters Home

Over several sessions, each student secretly observes an assigned classmate and tracks their positive qualities, then writes a formal letter to that classmate's family describing the strengths they witnessed — which is mailed home after a draft-and-revise process.

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Lucky Letters

Teams draw a random letter tile, then race to come up with a positive word starting with that letter to describe every person in the class — sharing their lists aloud and then discussing how it felt to hear the words others chose for them.

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Mad Lib

Create a Mad Lib story in which other students can fill in either “happy” or “excited” to complete the story, and apply their understanding of the difference between happy and excited to their own Mad Lib as well as to those of their classmates.

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Measuring Self Esteem

Students privately rate their own self-esteem on a 1–10 scale and reflect on what shapes it, then choose a role model with high self-esteem and create a collage or drawing of that person's qualities — sharing connections between their role model and themselves.

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My Shield

Students pass their named shields around the room in one-minute rotations, with each classmate writing one strength or success on every shield they receive — then get their shield back, add one self-identified strength, and decorate it with art supplies for classroom display.

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Positive Word Cloud

Students will write positive words and phrases to describe each of their classmates, then receive and read the words their peers wrote about them and turn those words into a personalized word cloud. They'll then reflect on how it feels to give and receive compliments and what the descriptions reveal about how others see them.

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Puzzle Positive

Students draw a numbered puzzle piece, convert the number to a letter, then brainstorm as many descriptive words starting with that letter as possible — circling positives and crossing out negatives — before discussing how the balance of positive vs. negative words in their lives affects them.

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Royal Zap

Students draw cards and share that many facts about themselves, and whenever someone draws a face card they get "zapped" and must write compliments on classmates' papers until the next person is zapped — then everyone reads the compliments they received.

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Scrambled

Using Bananagrams or Scrabble tiles, students race to unscramble words representing resilience attributes (e.g., courage, bravery, hope), then discuss how each trait can help them face challenges in their own lives.

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