Seventh - Eigth Grade

Developmental Characteristics

Physical

  • May appear awkward as result of rapid physical growth

  • Experiencing the beginning of puberty

  • Differ greatly in rate of maturation

  • Need to become familiar with changing body with strong drives

  • Tend to tire easily

  • Have a high activity level and appetite

  • Enjoy cooperative games and competitive sports

Social Emotional

  • Sensitive to their appearance

  • Establishing a personal moral code

  • Unsure of their place in society

  • Depend on their peer group to develop identity

  • Critical of their parents and home

  • May adopt extremes and fads in clothing, speech, handwriting, and mannerisms

  • Form close one-on-one friendships

  • Enjoy small, peer-dominated group discussions

  • Have a strong desire to assert individuality and independence

Cognitive

  • Capable of high level of abstract thought

  • Beginning to think about their future life roles

  • Need time and freedom to engage in self-reflection

  • Are able to postpone gratification

  • Can plan ahead and organize tasks with little or no guidance from adults

  • Beginning to develop views about social issues

Lessons

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I Wonder Ball

Students toss a numbered ball around the circle, and wherever their right thumb lands determines which reflection question they answer — progressing through three increasingly personal levels (from "What's your happy place?" to "What would you do if you weren't afraid?") with the option to pass at any time.

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Intentional Family Tree

Students journal about what family means to them, discuss the concept of "intentional family" (chosen relationships beyond biology), then create an illustrated family tree featuring the people they consider family — noting why each person belongs — and write a reflection on how they show those people they're valued.

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Lucky Number

Students will move to one of four numbered corners based on personal preference questions (e.g., "Are you most like summer, winter, spring, or fall?"), discuss their choices with classmates in the same corner, and earn points when the die lands on their number. The game creates a low-pressure way for students to learn about each other and build relationships through conversation.

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Moment of Memory

The facilitator reads six words from a TABOO card aloud, then signals "Go!" and students race to write down as many words as they can remember — playing multiple rounds with new cards and discussing strategies for improving focus and listening.

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Our Safe Classroom

Students write briefly about places that feel safe and unsafe, then rotate through three posters (physical, emotional, and intellectual safety) in small groups to brainstorm how to increase each type of safety in their classroom — ending with a class consensus on 2–3 concrete actions to implement.

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People Bingo

Students mingle around the room with a bingo grid of personal statements, collecting signatures from classmates who truthfully match each box (one signature per person per card) until someone completes their card and calls "BINGO!"

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Poker Challenge

Teams compete to complete a series of physical and mental challenges (building a pyramid, singing a commercial, doing 100 push-ups, etc.) to earn playing cards, then use their best five cards to compete in a final poker hand showdown.

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Puzzlemania

Students each draw a puzzle piece from a bag, then move around the room to find classmates whose pieces complete the same community agreement poster — then their group creates and performs a cheer or rap (with movement) celebrating that agreement.

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Recyclart

In groups of three, students select recycled materials from a shared bag and collaboratively build a piece of art that represents one of their community values, then present their artwork to the class explaining how the materials embody that value before displaying it as a hallway installation.

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Skittles

Students will each receive a cup of three different-colored Skittles and answer reflection questions linked to each color, sharing their responses with the group in a circle. This activity helps students build relationships and practice using their voice in a group discussion.

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Story Clues

Students will take turns telling a short story that weaves in six words from a TABOO card while their classmates listen carefully and try to guess all six words, then discuss the listening and communication skills the game required.

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Values Carnival

Students will generate lists of desirable and undesirable community values, then rotate through five carnival-style games where winning requires correctly identifying or targeting the positive values, earning tokens to redeem for prizes.

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What is Inspired

Students will write their own definition of what it means to feel inspired, then collaborate in small groups and a gallery walk to build a shared class vision of inspiring behavior — which gets posted in the room as a living agreement.

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What is Safe

Students will write their own definition of what it means to feel safe, then work in small groups and a gallery walk to build a shared class vision of safety — which gets posted in the room as a living agreement for the whole class.

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